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How to Set Goals – Setting Goals to Achieve Any of Your Burning Desires

March 31st, 2010 admin No comments

Setting goals are so important for our success. Regrettably, lot of people do not bother and barely leave everything to chance. They may believe they won’t accomplish their goals, so fear forbids them going any further. Or, they do not know how to set goals.

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How To Achieve Any Goal, NOW!

March 30th, 2010 admin No comments

1. Write down one goal that you want to achieve. Let’s not make this the grand goal of your life, something achievable in six months or so.

2. Write down the feeling you will have when you achieve that goal?Ex. (alive, energetic, sexy, accomplished, powerful.)

3. Write down when you will achieve the goal.

I ask you, what is your goal? Did you say what you wrote from #1? Great, but NO, that is not your goal. #1 is never your goal, #1 is just a strategy to get #2. THAT IS YOUR GOAL, to feel a certain way.

What we really want is the feeling that we experience (#2) when we accomplish that strategy (#1). The wonderful part about this is that you can choose to have that feeling anytime you want to have it! I don’t want to ask what you put for #3, because that tells me that you are putting feeling: alive, energetic, sexy, or whatever you said as #2, in the future. You are not allowing yourself to have it in the present moment. It’s funny because I will do this with my coaching clients and their perspective of thinking turns right around.

QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT?

What are we doing by denying our self this feeling?

How does it affect us?

How about allowing yourself to have that feeling of #2, and taking action on your goal right now? That will help accomplish what you are setting out to do. You now know that you can have that feeling anytime, it does not have to be attached to a strategy. What you hopefully have realized is what we do when we procrastinate, or sit on an ambition. We are denying our-self the feeling that we want to feel, because we think it is tied to a strategy. If you think about it, we give ourselves, very often, the feelings that we experience on a daily basis. We decide how we are going to feel, and then we live into it.

Write down a feeling or excuse associated with not working out? _______________________ We have now DECIDED that we are too ______ to workout and we live into it, rationalize it, and buy our own excuses!! What happens to your goals when YOU decide to live into the feeling of ________ that you wrote above? They get put on hold and NOTHING HAPPENS.

Imagine what would happen if EVERY morning you woke up and decided to feel what you wrote for #2? No more excuses in thinking about the strategy, lets feel our goal every day so we can create action.

If your goal is to feel SEXY because the strategy is to loose 20 lbs?it may be quite hard to really feel sexy when you don’t. I suggest however that the only reason you don’t feel sexy is because you BELIEVE you don’t. In order to own this feeling and make it real, we must practice feeling it every moment, every day to master it.

TAKE ACTION

1. On a blank piece of paper, write in large letters the word “EXPERIENCE.” Below it write in large letters what you wrote for #2.

2. Make copies and put it everywhere to remind yourself of the feeling you want on a regular basis. Bathroom mirror, bedside, refrigerator, car, office. We are setting our self up to win.

3. Before you go to bed, starting tonight, ask yourself?What are the top 2 things I wish to do tomorrow, in order to Experience the feeling I wrote? You need paper and pen by your bed?DON’T go to sleep without doing this or I will haunt you all night!! Write down the two actions and WHEN you will do them. If you have a day planner, that is the best “piece of paper” to write them on. Remember, in order to make success a habit and own this feeling, we must practice every day so we master it.

4. When you wake up, 1st thing, read your actions for the day and the Experience “_____” poster you made?DECIDE to embrace this feeling TODAY. Because yesterday is gone, and tomorrow will never come? so all we have is what we feel NOW.

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Getting to Your Goals: Top 5 Goals Setting Tips

March 29th, 2010 admin No comments

This time of year there are plenty of runners around London, locals limbering up for the marathon. They are out every day, running along the pavements (in spite of the fact that concrete is just about the worst surface to run on) and pounding the miles to the big day. And their success will be …

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The Secret to Setting Goals and Following Through to Reach Them

March 29th, 2010 admin No comments

We all strive to be better at what we do and hopefully work towards achieving bigger and better things. Many times these goals that we set for ourselves seem overwhelmingly difficult and too far away to actually reach. Here are a few tips on how to set your goals and then ultimately how to achieve them.

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Alvin Donovan Managing Goals by Alvin Donovan

March 28th, 2010 admin No comments

Alvin Donovan has presented seminars in many different countries and this has given him the opportunity to meet and interview some of the most successful people in the world. What Alvin Donovan has discovered is that they all manage their goals to make themselves more successful than the rest. They are strategies you can use easily and naturally to begin to Make More Money NOW:

Managing Goals: Outcome Determination, Generation and Realisation

Outcome Determination Procedure-
Benefits of this article by Alvin Donovan:
* Motivate yourself for action and avoid procrastination.
* Establish your position and direction.
* Achieve and enhance your peak personal performance.
* Designing and engineering your future.

Would it be helpful to have a way to always keep on track to your outcomes?
Alvin Donovan has always divided people up into two categories, winners and losers. Others divide people into three categories:
1. Those who make it happen
2. Those who watch it happen
3. Those who wonder what happened

Alvin Donovan always asks “what kind of a person do you choose to be?”
Because regardless of who you want to be, the device of outcome is how you get become what you want to be. The way outcome works is the stronger you determine your outcome and know your outcome the more sure you are to achieve it.

No matter what you lot in life you must always strive to improve it. Complacency will only get you behind, not ahead. So from now on, always, before everything you do, determine the outcome you desire before you do it. The reason is because the more strongly you determine your outcome, the more you get it.

Alvin Donovan makes the point “The more you think, work, see, hear, feel and make sense of things in terms of outcome the more likely you are to achieve your goals.”
What you need to do is cut grooves in your brain that lead you towards achieving the goals you want to achieve. A way that is very useful to me is to go through a certain refocusing on a daily basis. Depending on your time schedule and your desire for results, you can do these procedure from 1 minute to 15 minutes per day.

Alvin Donovan New outcome generator

A) Prime the pump. Let us get things started by determining exactly what you want and establishing how you will know when you have it. You need to establish goal posts along the way to your outcome so you know you are moving in the right direction and also when you get where you want to go. How about you start with the outcome you have for reading this article?

If you could wave a magic wand, what would happen, what would you achieve after reading it? For a moment, let your imagination run wild! Dare to dream up the most exciting, wonderfully fulfilling fantasy that could ever be!

Now, I want to issue a word of warning. Make sure that what you wish for is what you actually want, what will make you really happy. Don’t be too surprised too soon when these wishes actually come true. Alvin Donovan wants only happy surprises.

1. Now it is very important to state the outcome in terms of what you actually
want instead of what you want to avoid or discard. The reason for that is if you state something like I don’t want to make sales calls where I lose the deal, then in order for your mind to understand that statement, you have to imagine losing the deal and then cancel that picture out.

On the other hand, when you state something like, I want to make the deal on every sales call I make. You make a picture of doing so and just follow along that mental track unimpeded. Write down your outcome in terms of what you want to achieve.

2. Before you start the generator, you need to define and establish some sensory-based evidence. i.e.:

How would you know that you could accomplish the goal in that situation or with that person? What would be there? What would you need to see, hear, feel and make sense of?

Have you done it before? Have you accomplished this goal or something like it? What did it feel like? Pay particular attention to the feelings you have had as you achieved that other goal. Really get in touch with that feeling and note exactly where it is in your body and what it feels like so that you can remember it easily. Specify that feeling of success. Now. Write it down.

Now you are ready to begin:

New outcome generator Stage 2

1. Ask yourself, “If I could already achieve my new goal, what
would I look like? (Put your eyes and head down and to
the left.)

2. Picture yourself achieving your goal as if you are watching
yourself in a movie. (Look up and to the right.) Make the picture
bigger, clearer, closer, brighter, add colors.

3. Step into the picture so you feel yourself doing what you
pictured. (Put your eyes and head down and to the right.)

4. Compare these feelings to those feelings from a similar past
success. (Keep your eyes and head turned down and to the
right.)

5. If it does not feel the same, find what is missing and add it. Redo the
process.

So, let us use the example of making every sales call. Alvin Donovan writes down that he wants to make a deal on every sales call he makes. Alvin Donovan remembers what it feels like to make a deal and really pay attention to the feeling that it produces, makes a note of that feeling.

Next, Alvin Donovan will put his eyes and head down and to the left. He asks hisself “if I could already make the deal on every sales call I make, what would I look like?”

Next, Alvin Donovan puts his eyes and head up and to the right and watch hisself making the deal on every sales call as if he is am watching a movie with me as the actor in the movie. He makes sure the movie has color, is bright enough, close enough and big enough to make a real impact.

Next, Alvin Donovan puts his eyes and head down and to the right, he steps into the movie so that he becomes the actor in the movie and he compares that feeling to the feeling of the past success above.

How did that feel? Just for the fun of it, redo the process again doing the opposite of what is written. On step 1 turn your eyes and head down and to the right. On the rest of the steps put your eyes and head to the left. Notice which one felt better.

We have done an exercise, you have learned something, now it is time to think how you can put it into practice. Write below here with the intention to use this: What are some of the many ways that I can use and apply this in the real world?

Now most people have no challenge to move their eyes and head in the right direction. The key is to ask the right question, make the pictures and pay attention to the feelings inside. This is something that comes naturally with practice. Practice this over and over again. What you will find is that as you go out and begin to use this and as you come into persuasion situations you will discover that this really works to more readily achieve your outcomes.

You will more readily achieve your outcomes and when you use this frequently it will cause you to get more sales. You will get more sales which will give you the income you desire because the more sales you make the more money you make.

Assignments: Twice a day, you must rehearse and emotionally enjoy the experience of achieving each one of your most valued goals. Right now take immediate action.

Alvin Donovan, founder of the investment bank KiwiGrowthPartners.com, has presented his Make More Money NOW seminars all around the world and has co-authored a book of the same title. Alvin Donovan has also been a consultant/faculty member for several of the world’s largest management institutes, including the American Management Association and the National Management Association in the USA, the Management Centre Europe in Belgium, and IMI in Dublin

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